Lil Nigel, Shawn and I had an interview with Si Min from Mama Baobei Magazine around 2 months back. Interview is mainly on Prenatal Education .....
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Mama Baobei Interview
Lil Nigel, Shawn and I had an interview with Si Min from Mama Baobei Magazine around 2 months back. Interview is mainly on Prenatal Education .....
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Grandpa's Memorial Service
On the 18th & 19th of Dec is my Grandpa's 3th Year Death Anniversary.... The highlight was the Huge "House", 2 storey tall !! Wow ! Estimated cost I heard was 10k .... Took 5 lorrys to move the house to the burning site at Jalan Kayu. Plus the tentage, food, transport and stuffs like paper money, I think it cost near 100k for the entire event !! As usual, a big turn out as my Grandpa is a very popular guy.
Monday, December 14, 2009
Penny for my Thoughts .. Our Younger Generation
Just Yesterday, a 15 yr old just said to me " Aren't you going to apologise to me?" I was totally shocked. The Mobile Phone she wanted was out of stock and she wan me to apologise to her. Like it's any fault of mine ! Like Mother Like Daughter.. I can tell her mum is also one of a kind. Just for the sake of peace, I apologise on behalf of my company. In my many years of working in the telco industry, it's the first time anyone ask that of me and a young kid !! OMG !! In my line of work, I met with loads of people everyday. I have seen all kinds of characters. But what shock me is our younger Generations. Lots of them are rude, full of themselves and act like they own the whole world. I have met many who scold their parents in front of me, calling them stuipd and stuff.. I even met one mother who beg me to ask her son to get a cheaper phone cos she has no money. It's really terrible. If it's my mum, she would have just slap me on the spot !!! Another incident which I could not forget was these 2 girls, I ask them which are they looking for in a phone since they can't decide what they want. They rudely said "Obviously can call and sms!!!" ..... Another incident which happen recently, Shawn was in a lift with a teenager and his mum, he was scolding his mum all the foul languages and the mum just kept quiet !! My mum would have throw me out of the house !!
Why are our younger generation behaving this way ???
I notice a pattern. Most of the parents are actually pretty old. Older than my mum and dad. So I think they tend to dote and pamper them too much. So the kids tend to climb all over their parents thus do not know what is "Respect".
Singaporeans' way of life is a big problem. Too busy working to tend to their kids, so most of the time their kids are left in the childcare, nanny or grandparents. As caretakers, most of them would not really discipline the kids. They are just focus on the kids physical well-being.
"Weekend Parents". Only spending "quantity" time with their children during the weekends. During this time, there is no time to disciplines their children. Mainly will be spent doing homework, going out shopping and stuff.
Also, too much focus on studies. Everything is about getting top in class, getting As. And plus reward system.." If you get top in class, I will give you this and that" No much time spend on their spiritual development.
And lastly, the new way of teaching kids. "Shouldn't beat them, should just tell them what is wrong and explain to them". I have seem many parents who is using that method. It's a total disaster. I known a few of them myself. I'm definitely not using this method. I do believe in " Sparing the rod and spoil the child".
Looking at the Lil Man is sleeping peacefully like a Lil Angel. I wonder will he grow up to be a menace like those kids. I'm also an "old" parent and I'm too busy working to spend time with the Lil Man. Will I become one of the parents that let him climb all over me ??
I'm trying to learn from my parents. They did a good job of bringing me up. My mum is housewife. So she had the time to discipline my siblings and I. She definitely is a firm believer of the cane !! My dad would come home and spend the time with us every evening. They don't pressure us on our studies. As long as we try our best, it's good enough for my parents. Most important is for them is that we respect our elders and is happy. My parents seldom quarrel too.
Shawn and I agree that we will bring Nigel up the old way.
Definitely discipline him when he's naughty. Of cos we will explain to him why it's wrong but sometimes, they are really too young to understand. Dr Teoh told me on my previous visit :"It's important to show them why it's wrong to do certain things, Just let him touch the hot kettle and he will learn why he should not touch it" Nigel is one inquisitive baby. He want to touch everything and anything. My dad noticed that once you let him touch it, he will be happy and not insist on touching it again.
Focus more on his well being and health too. Swimming and music lessons are my focus now. Studies-wise, no point forcing him to the top and get all As. Most important is that he's happy. Of cos, Job-wise, Shawn finally decided that he need a job change. He's been coming home really late since the launch of Iphone (4.30Am on the first day !! ) and gets only one Off day a week. As for Moi, working towards my Internet biz. So hopefully, Shawn and I will not be one of those weekends parents. Right now, Thanks Guan Yi that my parents are taking care of him now. They definitely will love and discipline the Lil Man. And Lil Man loves them very muchy too !
Why are our younger generation behaving this way ???
I notice a pattern. Most of the parents are actually pretty old. Older than my mum and dad. So I think they tend to dote and pamper them too much. So the kids tend to climb all over their parents thus do not know what is "Respect".
Singaporeans' way of life is a big problem. Too busy working to tend to their kids, so most of the time their kids are left in the childcare, nanny or grandparents. As caretakers, most of them would not really discipline the kids. They are just focus on the kids physical well-being.
"Weekend Parents". Only spending "quantity" time with their children during the weekends. During this time, there is no time to disciplines their children. Mainly will be spent doing homework, going out shopping and stuff.
Also, too much focus on studies. Everything is about getting top in class, getting As. And plus reward system.." If you get top in class, I will give you this and that" No much time spend on their spiritual development.
And lastly, the new way of teaching kids. "Shouldn't beat them, should just tell them what is wrong and explain to them". I have seem many parents who is using that method. It's a total disaster. I known a few of them myself. I'm definitely not using this method. I do believe in " Sparing the rod and spoil the child".
Looking at the Lil Man is sleeping peacefully like a Lil Angel. I wonder will he grow up to be a menace like those kids. I'm also an "old" parent and I'm too busy working to spend time with the Lil Man. Will I become one of the parents that let him climb all over me ??
I'm trying to learn from my parents. They did a good job of bringing me up. My mum is housewife. So she had the time to discipline my siblings and I. She definitely is a firm believer of the cane !! My dad would come home and spend the time with us every evening. They don't pressure us on our studies. As long as we try our best, it's good enough for my parents. Most important is for them is that we respect our elders and is happy. My parents seldom quarrel too.
Shawn and I agree that we will bring Nigel up the old way.
Definitely discipline him when he's naughty. Of cos we will explain to him why it's wrong but sometimes, they are really too young to understand. Dr Teoh told me on my previous visit :"It's important to show them why it's wrong to do certain things, Just let him touch the hot kettle and he will learn why he should not touch it" Nigel is one inquisitive baby. He want to touch everything and anything. My dad noticed that once you let him touch it, he will be happy and not insist on touching it again.
Focus more on his well being and health too. Swimming and music lessons are my focus now. Studies-wise, no point forcing him to the top and get all As. Most important is that he's happy. Of cos, Job-wise, Shawn finally decided that he need a job change. He's been coming home really late since the launch of Iphone (4.30Am on the first day !! ) and gets only one Off day a week. As for Moi, working towards my Internet biz. So hopefully, Shawn and I will not be one of those weekends parents. Right now, Thanks Guan Yi that my parents are taking care of him now. They definitely will love and discipline the Lil Man. And Lil Man loves them very muchy too !
Thursday, December 10, 2009
"I'm 7 Months Old !!"
Yoz !!
**HuGzZzz**
I'm Uber CoooOoool
Cute Dimpley Paw
"ZzzZZzZZZZzZ"
I'm 7 months old already. I'm 71cm and 7.4kg. I can sit all by myself. I love Pumpkins and Corns but best of all, I love to eat Ah Ma's homemade porridge cos she puts in loads of great stuff and LOVE into it. I'm a Big Brother now too. I love to kiss and hugz Lil Tong Tong. I know Lil Tong Tong and Me are going to be Great Buddies cos We are both 2 Crowners ! And soonz, Tong Tong and I can going Swimming together too ! But Mummy Dearest, Can you please spend more time with me soonest ??
Do I really have to do it ??
"There go nothing !! MuackZzz"
Tong: "Wat's Happening ??"
"Taste Nice.. Can I do it AgAin ??
Tong:..... Yucks!!
We are going to be Great Buddies !! Let's torment our parents together !!
So Mummy, Do I get my reward now ???
Monday, December 7, 2009
Motherhood at 7 mths
Nigel is going to be 7 mths old tomorrow. Looking back at the past 7 mths, Motherhood has been really fulfilling experience. It's really hard to imagine Life without the Lil Man. It also scares me to think that the Life and Happiness of a Person is on my hands. What if I make a mistake? What if it's not the right decision? What more can I do ?? All these question keep coming into my mind and definitely will continue on as Nigel grows older, I'm already looking around for a Good Pre-school for him. The Question of which Primary school to sent him to is already in our minds.. Oh My !! So stressful for the Lil Man. Nigel is a really smart kid, I'm just wondering how I'm going to help him to be the Best he can be. Of cos, Health is more important to me than his studies. So I will be sending him to Tai Chi classes and of cos Swimming. Swimming is the best exercise. Helps to work the mind, strengthen the lungs and heart. Especially at such a young age, a little help goes a long way. So I make it a point to let him swim at least once a week. Music lesson is another area I'm looking into. This Guy loves music and has a good sense of beat and rhythm.
Another worry on my mind is Time. With my current job and internet biz to run, time is not enough. But at least I'm leaving Nigel in the best care possible which is with my Mum and Dad. Hopfully in time to come, I will be able to be SAHM running my Internet Biz full time and be able to really enjoy being a Mum.
Another worry on my mind is Time. With my current job and internet biz to run, time is not enough. But at least I'm leaving Nigel in the best care possible which is with my Mum and Dad. Hopfully in time to come, I will be able to be SAHM running my Internet Biz full time and be able to really enjoy being a Mum.
My Lil Niece and Nigel
Lil Shannon (who was Alexis) is the beautiful daughter of my younger sis, Pamela and Hubby Terence. Lil Nigel has a love hate relationship currently with her now !! He's one jealous Lil Boy. Whenever my parents carry Shannon, he will make a really big fuss. But then again, he doesn't get angry when I carry Shannon. But however, he will kiss her (more like lick her) and hug her... I hope they will be great Buddies when they grow up.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
JuZ Tired and MoOoOody...
Been Feeling extremely tired and moody these days .. PMS ? Maybe.. But PMS I believe juz enhance wat I'm really feeling.. Why am I feeling this way ???
1. Top of the list.. My Job. If my readers don't know, I'm working in Singtel Hello! Shop @ Compass Point. It pays well. The people I'm working with are great and fun. It's just that the working hours are long But of cos, not as long as when I'm in M1 but I'm Old liaoz, hitting 30 next year. Also, some customer these days really Sucks Big Time ! As everyone knows, Singapore has the worst customers. Demand Demand Demand, Wan the world for Free. Like yesterday, an Idiot ask me, "Why Singtel rent me the miotv box but give me the modem. So miotv box spoil, Singtel change new one for me, why can't they rent me the modem instead?" I just tell him straight, If I know, I wouldn't be standing here in front of him. So he shut up after that. Somehow I think instead of promoting better Customer Service, Singapore should promote Better Customers instead! Singaporeans have a really bad reputation out there ! On the good side, I do have really Nice customers most of the time, 70% maybe .. whom I enjoy helping, it becomes enjoyable when I'm helping them with their phone contract and stuff. So I will go the extra mile without them asking me to. And also, People out there, Please expect to wait when you come and get your Mobile Phone or Broadband when you come during weekends and holidays !! So moral of the story is to have Good Service from Us Retail People, You as a Customer need to treat us Retail People Like Humans too !! And If you do not wan to wait for an hour or more, come during off peak hour !!
2. My Online Biz. Me and my hubby have 2 online shops selling Baby products and stuff. It's really tiring juggling normal job, Biz and Nigel. I only have 2 off days per week. On my off days, I'm taking care of Nigel too Plus I'm still tired, been ending off really late these days. I have to upload pictures, update stuff, do up my new products. My hubby do try to help but he's hopeless when it comes to editing and uploading so he juz nag at me to do it, like juz now when I'm writing my blog !! He doesn't look after Nigel during his off days cos he really can't handle him on his own. To give him credit, he goes around meeting people to help with the biz but he also met up with his frens ma ! But My Biz is my only salvation now. So not matter how tired, I do try. Plus I have so many new and interesting stuff on hand now !! But I'm too tired to read up on them.. SobS.. Howz ??
3. Maid. Maid suppose to be helping me, but I get mentally tired. I juz change a new maid. But previous one have issues. She's a pain. Meeting people without letting me know. I have warn her upteem times already. But enough is enough. She also use my Home Line without my knowledge. But all in all, Nigel and my doggies really likes her. The new maid juz came on the 29th. She's really quiet and solemn. From wat I see, she seems to be from a well to do family. She chooses her facial wash like most of us. She is using my fave cup !! My Pink Precious Moments Cup !! And she eats really slowly. And boy ! She has a temper !! She doesn't really wan to play with Nigel it seems..
4. Nigel, The Lil Boy is a handful. He's really moody since Tong's arrival. I think he's having serious jealousy issue !! I wonder how can a Lil 6 mths old Boy knows about jealousy ? But he's one smart Baby. He's also really afraid of being all alone. I can't leave him in his baby cot alone at all. He will scream ! I tried putting toys inside but no use at all !!
Oh No ! I hear Nigel's bells.. He's waking up !!
1. Top of the list.. My Job. If my readers don't know, I'm working in Singtel Hello! Shop @ Compass Point. It pays well. The people I'm working with are great and fun. It's just that the working hours are long But of cos, not as long as when I'm in M1 but I'm Old liaoz, hitting 30 next year. Also, some customer these days really Sucks Big Time ! As everyone knows, Singapore has the worst customers. Demand Demand Demand, Wan the world for Free. Like yesterday, an Idiot ask me, "Why Singtel rent me the miotv box but give me the modem. So miotv box spoil, Singtel change new one for me, why can't they rent me the modem instead?" I just tell him straight, If I know, I wouldn't be standing here in front of him. So he shut up after that. Somehow I think instead of promoting better Customer Service, Singapore should promote Better Customers instead! Singaporeans have a really bad reputation out there ! On the good side, I do have really Nice customers most of the time, 70% maybe .. whom I enjoy helping, it becomes enjoyable when I'm helping them with their phone contract and stuff. So I will go the extra mile without them asking me to. And also, People out there, Please expect to wait when you come and get your Mobile Phone or Broadband when you come during weekends and holidays !! So moral of the story is to have Good Service from Us Retail People, You as a Customer need to treat us Retail People Like Humans too !! And If you do not wan to wait for an hour or more, come during off peak hour !!
2. My Online Biz. Me and my hubby have 2 online shops selling Baby products and stuff. It's really tiring juggling normal job, Biz and Nigel. I only have 2 off days per week. On my off days, I'm taking care of Nigel too Plus I'm still tired, been ending off really late these days. I have to upload pictures, update stuff, do up my new products. My hubby do try to help but he's hopeless when it comes to editing and uploading so he juz nag at me to do it, like juz now when I'm writing my blog !! He doesn't look after Nigel during his off days cos he really can't handle him on his own. To give him credit, he goes around meeting people to help with the biz but he also met up with his frens ma ! But My Biz is my only salvation now. So not matter how tired, I do try. Plus I have so many new and interesting stuff on hand now !! But I'm too tired to read up on them.. SobS.. Howz ??
3. Maid. Maid suppose to be helping me, but I get mentally tired. I juz change a new maid. But previous one have issues. She's a pain. Meeting people without letting me know. I have warn her upteem times already. But enough is enough. She also use my Home Line without my knowledge. But all in all, Nigel and my doggies really likes her. The new maid juz came on the 29th. She's really quiet and solemn. From wat I see, she seems to be from a well to do family. She chooses her facial wash like most of us. She is using my fave cup !! My Pink Precious Moments Cup !! And she eats really slowly. And boy ! She has a temper !! She doesn't really wan to play with Nigel it seems..
4. Nigel, The Lil Boy is a handful. He's really moody since Tong's arrival. I think he's having serious jealousy issue !! I wonder how can a Lil 6 mths old Boy knows about jealousy ? But he's one smart Baby. He's also really afraid of being all alone. I can't leave him in his baby cot alone at all. He will scream ! I tried putting toys inside but no use at all !!
Oh No ! I hear Nigel's bells.. He's waking up !!
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